concernedcatluvr
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I've brought it up in other threads that I am currently serving in the military and what I've done during my service. I've been thanked and respected for it, even when a verbal back hand is about to follow. I appreciate it, I really do, but there is a few things I want to say about this to give some people food for thought when they say it to service members, and to paint an image about how I really feel about being told this.
First I want to pose the question, what does one expect an individual serving to reply to this "thankyou for your service" part? I mean honestly, the average civilian who is educated or not has very little idea of what military life entails. They often don't know if they're giving their deepest gratitude to the mail clerk who will never deploy and is just chillin out for 20 years, or the beat to hell, hurt, offended and used infantryman of 8 years. In my opinion, all service is appreciated, but not all service is equal or even worth recognition in some cases. It's a little out of place in my mind to thank somebody for something when you really have no idea what they do, and a little awkward for me (and others I've had this discussion with) to reply with anything since it's my everyday life and you probably don't know much about it at all.
If you think that last statement was a bit too bold, and that everyone in the military deserves a thankyou then let me share this story with you. I was in a patrol base in which medical evacuation helicopters brought casualties from out in the field. This PB consisted mainly of logistics personel. They ran around the PB asking for blood because a med evac came in and they didn't have any blood for the guy. Only people stationed on that PB could give blood because they were processed there. They had to shut all the ammenties down, such as showers, toilets, gym, hang out areas, etc. . . . and beg people because they wouldn't come, and they still had a hard time. People were not rushing to give their blood, or even showed they cared even an ounce for our brother's welfare who was in dire circumstances.
Thank you for your service? And that's not the only story I have, but it's the only one that made me find a spot nobody would see me (god bless IDF bunkers) and shed a few tears in anger, frustration, and sorrow.
I don't say these things to tell people not to thank service members and that it's not appreciated, but rather I hope that maybe a few people will become a bit more aware of the awkwardness it brings to some and the reality of the military, if even just a little.
As far as my personal response goes to being told thankyou for my service, I don't want it. I'll take it out of respect for the person giving it, but that's it. One of the major reasons I have served is for the people of my country. I went in without expecting anything in return. If they told me they weren't going to pay me I would have done it anyways. That said, if you are an American or an allied nation then I want to thank you, for being a citizen for me to protect. For working, producing, consuming, and being a human being and contributing to the furthering of the human race simply by just being alive. I hope one day our world can make due without people having to serve in a military, that the job I've done will no longer be needed. So again, thankyou, for living the dream, for living life, and being you.
First I want to pose the question, what does one expect an individual serving to reply to this "thankyou for your service" part? I mean honestly, the average civilian who is educated or not has very little idea of what military life entails. They often don't know if they're giving their deepest gratitude to the mail clerk who will never deploy and is just chillin out for 20 years, or the beat to hell, hurt, offended and used infantryman of 8 years. In my opinion, all service is appreciated, but not all service is equal or even worth recognition in some cases. It's a little out of place in my mind to thank somebody for something when you really have no idea what they do, and a little awkward for me (and others I've had this discussion with) to reply with anything since it's my everyday life and you probably don't know much about it at all.
If you think that last statement was a bit too bold, and that everyone in the military deserves a thankyou then let me share this story with you. I was in a patrol base in which medical evacuation helicopters brought casualties from out in the field. This PB consisted mainly of logistics personel. They ran around the PB asking for blood because a med evac came in and they didn't have any blood for the guy. Only people stationed on that PB could give blood because they were processed there. They had to shut all the ammenties down, such as showers, toilets, gym, hang out areas, etc. . . . and beg people because they wouldn't come, and they still had a hard time. People were not rushing to give their blood, or even showed they cared even an ounce for our brother's welfare who was in dire circumstances.
Thank you for your service? And that's not the only story I have, but it's the only one that made me find a spot nobody would see me (god bless IDF bunkers) and shed a few tears in anger, frustration, and sorrow.
I don't say these things to tell people not to thank service members and that it's not appreciated, but rather I hope that maybe a few people will become a bit more aware of the awkwardness it brings to some and the reality of the military, if even just a little.
As far as my personal response goes to being told thankyou for my service, I don't want it. I'll take it out of respect for the person giving it, but that's it. One of the major reasons I have served is for the people of my country. I went in without expecting anything in return. If they told me they weren't going to pay me I would have done it anyways. That said, if you are an American or an allied nation then I want to thank you, for being a citizen for me to protect. For working, producing, consuming, and being a human being and contributing to the furthering of the human race simply by just being alive. I hope one day our world can make due without people having to serve in a military, that the job I've done will no longer be needed. So again, thankyou, for living the dream, for living life, and being you.