My son was playing around and opened up mail that he shouldn't have, as I went to straighten things up I noticed it to be from the mortgage company, long story short I think my wife has been stalling the medical companys collection agencies by not paying the mortgage.
It's on a repayment schedule so we're not totally screwed but we are in very bad shape...
She shouldn't have done this behind my back, DAMN IT!
bcullen - ring the mortgage company up straight away and tell them the situation, work out an instalment plan that you can live with. I hope things work out.
I don't think so Mei Hua. We have lives and I was out training MA last night so I can kick your butt down the road (like I told you I would a long time ago). Su and V are doing the same and eating flapjack while they're at it. We're multi-tasking.
We're already on a payment plan and it looks as though we didn't get a good deal. I don't know what happened but I don't like the numbers I'm seeing. I'm at the point where any semi-serious issue could be enough to push me over the edge.
We've taken steps to control our cost of living that should help but it could be a case of too little, too late. I'll find out more when I get home today, maybe I'm making too much out of it. (God, I hope so.)
Hey bc, remember its just bricks and mortar. Streamline your bank accounts, get all credit cards in your hands as well.
Good idea to discuss it with your whole family. Not sure how young your children are but I think its good to get it in the open and make everyone aware of what's happening and what they need to do to keep things in line. It just involves discipline and care.
Don't let it weigh on you. Easier said than done but there's no point 'stressing'. Doesn't help anyone.
You could of course lay it all out and open here on MAP. We are always ready to tell others "What, Where, When, Why, and How" with thier lives. This should be a piece of cake.
alright then do you want me to pull up the pm's you sent me inviting me down to australia for .... oh i can't say for what but it involved golf clubs, carnations and peanut butter