Tiger'sMama
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in the past 3 yrs the in-laws always hugged me & my husband (their son) everytime we met or said goodbye, i got used to that.
Now that my family from oversea were here for 1 month with me, they hug when havent seen in long time, but visiting each other often they just wave or say see u later, but don't do kissing and hugging all the time.
Now that my family is gone, my husband and i were over at in-laws for dinner, things are so different, they just stood there and gave me hand wave hi and bye at the end, i felt awkard, cuz only cousins came up to me and hugged me and the boyfriend gave me kiss on cheek and hug like normal as always, except for those in-laws didn't.
I think cuz they saw that my family wasn't hugging, so now they're not hugging me or cuz of our difference? we had disagreement or argument few times when my family were here, cuz my familyfelt disrespected and didnt liked how they treated me.
I think they should continue hug and keep the way they are, but they're changing it on purposely? i think they're immature.
at the end as i was about to leave, i did walked closer to mother in law and told her thank u for the dinner and as i was about to give her hug but she waved "bye" in front of me and stood there, didn't leaned over to me to give me hug, so i stopped there before i could put my arm around her, i felt awkward and walked away.
Now that my family from oversea were here for 1 month with me, they hug when havent seen in long time, but visiting each other often they just wave or say see u later, but don't do kissing and hugging all the time.
Now that my family is gone, my husband and i were over at in-laws for dinner, things are so different, they just stood there and gave me hand wave hi and bye at the end, i felt awkard, cuz only cousins came up to me and hugged me and the boyfriend gave me kiss on cheek and hug like normal as always, except for those in-laws didn't.
I think cuz they saw that my family wasn't hugging, so now they're not hugging me or cuz of our difference? we had disagreement or argument few times when my family were here, cuz my familyfelt disrespected and didnt liked how they treated me.
I think they should continue hug and keep the way they are, but they're changing it on purposely? i think they're immature.
at the end as i was about to leave, i did walked closer to mother in law and told her thank u for the dinner and as i was about to give her hug but she waved "bye" in front of me and stood there, didn't leaned over to me to give me hug, so i stopped there before i could put my arm around her, i felt awkward and walked away.