They just don't care and that burns me up!?

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Zigzager

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my mom, little sister and i recently moved away from our hometown for all of our lives, gave up our beautiful home, huge yard, and fuzzy lil dog so her fiance could be with his boys ages 15 and 12. they are copnstantly disrespecting both their dad and my mom and we've told them what we've had to give up for them on numerous occasions and they just spit on that! i gave up being handed everything on a silver platter so they could be with their dad and they look at us like we're nothing and they're like the greatest people that ever lived and just straight up bullcrap is all i ever hear them talk about behind our backs. lies mostly. and their mom is feeding them lies about our family which obviously dosen't help at all! how can we deal with her and them?! i'm 17 and i didn't come here to be thrown in the middle of something and my mom feels the same way. should i go back home and live with my grandparents and go back to all of the friends that i gave up for those two ungreatfull boys? or just stick it out here and beat the hell of them next weekend when they're rude to my mom or little sister? and i've talked to my mom about her, me, my sister, and my moms fiance all going back home and she said that we're already here and why keep running away from our problems? and they're getting married in july! what if the kids and their mom try to sabotage the wedding because they want their parents back together and that's so far away from happening and the boys don't see that!
but thats the thing! i kinda dont wanna go back home cuz i like bein here!
 
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Skye

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Wow, thats hard. This definitely sounds like an issue thats not going away by itself, they'll probably still try to make your life hard ten years from now.
Have you ever trie to talk to your moms fiance?
You gave up everything for him already and now you're being punished for that.
What i dont understand though, did he live there and you moved there to be with him?
Or did he live where you lived and you moved together to the new location?And if so, did the mother of his children move away?
I'm asking because if he lived where you live and his kids always have lived at a different town what makes him decide now that he wants to be closer.
Either way, its his job now to keep you from this.
He needs to talk to his ex and more importantly, to his boys.
He needs to tell them that there will be consequences if they keep disrespectiing you.
See what happens then. You gave up everything for him, now its on him to at least protect you from his drama.
As for you, hey see how it gets okay and then you can still decide if you wanna live like that or not.
As for you moving alone to live with your grandparents, think about your little sister and your mom. They get mistreated too.
But i disagree with your mom. Even though i absoluteky understand where she's coming from ( kudos to her!) i dont think you're running from your problems since these are his problems ( given he didnt ask for this either!) and only yours by asssociation.
Again , he needs to take care of this.
But why did the dog have to go?
As for sabotaging the wedding, hmm how much damage can they possibly do?
In the end they cant stop the wedding, and they know that and its pissing them off...
 
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