something that makes me go grrrrr
Lets see.
If I invite a guy out for coffee, its not because I wanna date you. I have coffee with many people, who I think are nice or just friends, I dont wanna date them!
If I do ask a guy out on a date and you, guy, dont want to go, dont put me off by saying you're busy or making up some excuse or something like that. Because I may very well ask you again later and when these excuses keep coming I will get mad and call you on your BS and being too much of a wuss to tell the truth. If you dont want to say yes, please just say no. (Incidentally, I flipped out at a guy for standing me up twice in just that way years ago. I got really mad, told him off, and he ended up saying I was right. But I never did see that guy again. nor did he ever lay eyes on me again.) Got no time for that sort of treatment and BS from people.