Things that make you go GRRRRR.... (Part 2)

ANSHU

New member
and now I can't freaking stop laughing. I'm 21....

Mind you, that's nothing on my sister. I once dared her to wind down her car window and shout 'poo' in a crowded city center. She did. She's 34...
 

ShaunZee

New member
in the end, insulting people by comparing them to other people is bad, because you are simultaneously insulting whichever category of people you choose to use as a derogatory term. punch them instead, it's more productive.
 

mollyF

Member
I'm not great at explaining things so bear with me.

One insult is that someone is acting like a 6 year old, the other is they're acting like they're mentally retarded.
You say both a 6 year old and a mentally handicapped person are morally worth the same.
If we then say calling someone retarded is worse, we're saying its worse to be mentally handicapped than a 6 year old. In doing so we're saying the 6 year old is "better" than a person with a mental disability.

I'm guessing everyone would say being handicapped is worse than being 6 but I think what I'm doing is critical thinking or something. Whatever, the point is that when society says something is more acceptable than something else its saying one thing is more or less desirable than something else and therefore "better" or "worse"
 

tiacola

New member
Ah, thanks for the clear up. When comparing two people, you then run into the issue of who is better. ie. The six year old and mentally handicapped individual.
 

hokosse

Member
No. It's none of those things.

It's that behaving as if you DO have a disability when you don't is reprehensible.

Genuinely being handicapped is not reprehensible. Behaving as if you are when you're not is.

To use a humorous example, a severely handicapped person might not understand that pooping in public is not acceptable. So it's not morally wrong of a MR person to poop on the ground. But as a mentally competent adult I DO know it's wrong to poop in public, so it IS morally wrong if I do it Does that clear things up????
 

CharlieT

Member
I never said having a handicap is reprehensible as such. Also slightly confused how you can say I'm wrong for explaining why I said something since that would mean you know why I said it better than I do

Your example also doesn't fit. To stick with it though if someone who wasn't handicapped pooped on the ground while someone else was acting like a child and you said the pooping on the floor was worse you'd be saying acting like a handicapped person is worse than acting like a child. By doing so you're saying acting like a handicapped person is more reprehensible than immitating a kid, so the kid is worth more as its more acceptable to act like one

I was never comparing acting like being handicapped to actually being handicapped in terms of worth I was comparing two seperate insults.
 

Lala11

Member
Ok, I've finished having a huge mental overload and can actually think, so here goes.

I'm not saying either of them is worth more.

I'm saying it's about whether you know better. That is what makes acting like either of them wrong when a non disabled adult does it.

To stick with the pooping example...when the handicapped person, or indeed kid, does it, it's no reflection on them because they don't know better. If I do it as a 21 year old woman with a normal IQ, it is a reflection on me because I know better.
 
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