This girl is breaking up with me. How do I tell her that she's welcome to come...

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achilles19282

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...back if she wants in future.? I want to tell her that I like her and would love to be together if she changes her mind in future.
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ALSO She has plenty of ego and would never contact me herself if she felt that I might reject her. So I want to make sure that whatever I say also makes her comfy about contacting me again!
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I don't want to sound desperate/needy/stalkish etc either
 
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jammin7000

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Just ask her if she knows where you can get the best price on a jumbo box of condoms- that will give her something to think about for awhile and she'll contact you out of shear jealousy- trust me.
 
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Melinlca

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If she's breaking up with you how are you so sure she'll change her mind in the future.
Anyway u cld be like, "look if you ever want to try again just let me know."
 
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RobertB

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Just tell her clearly what you want to say. Trying to put messages across in any other way is bound to end up with misunderstandings. Give her the message and move on wth your life.
 
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jeswise

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From a girls point of view, if you say that, you'll sound needy. Tell her that you'll always be a friend if she needs it. That's as open of a door as I would take from a guy without thinking he was needy and clingy.
 
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LM

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dont tell her that. she'll love knowing she has that power over her. just act like you dont care, and that will make her want you more than if u put yourself out there.
 
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MreE

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If she is breaking up with you because of something you did/said/do, etc. then tell her you will try to change it and ask if there would be a possibility of you getting back together once you change said attribute.

Otherwise, tell her that you do love her and that she's welcome to come back to you in the future, plain and simple.
 
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Peter

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dont tell her that..it just sounds needy and desperate..just take it for what is and dont try to contact her..watch her come crawling back
 
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kourtneyw

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From a womans perspective, that will sound desperate and needy. Dont say anything except too bad it didn't work out and move on. Trust me there are plenty of other women out there waiting for decent men!
Goodluck
 
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mmgmmlmmm

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Just tell her you will Always be there for her when she needs you & she Always has a place in your heart whenever she needs to come back.
 
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