This guy and I like each other, but we argue every two weeks over something stupid!?

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coolminnie16

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Me and this guy are talking. We argue about the dumbest things. I tried twice to break things off and he keeps getting mad and says things like "wow, I don't even want to go there with you right now, but then 2 seconds later he texts me back and starts up a argument. So then I asked him, "Do you want to walk away and be done with us" and he says "I don't know". He always says my logic is so backwards at times. We have never argued in person, its always through text messages. He unfollowed me off twitter and deleted me as a friend off facebook, but yet he monitors everything I say on twitter because my page is public. He claims "he is tired of seeing stuff about relationships, and men are this and women are that". I honestly think he gets mad, when I make a status that is similar to our relationship . Only a few of our closes friends know that we even talk. But he is really confusing me, I told him I want to break things off, because I can't make him happy and yet he gets mad, but then when I ask him "Do you wanna just end things", he says "I don't know" . Can something please explain this to me!! Is it something I'm doing wrong or what?
 
Why do you need his "permission" just to end things? You say you tried twice to break it off. Yanno, if you really DO break it off, you wouldn't be wondering about this, and you wouldn't be arguing. Even if HE "doesn't know" what he wants, that doesn't stop YOU from knowing, and from ending this sad situation. (I mean, come on! He gets to delete you from FB and Twitter, but follows you obsessively and gets mad about what you post??!!)

The answer is yes, it's what you're doing wrong. You are allowing him to monitor you and nag you and to control the entire relationship. You know this is going in circles - but you're waiting around for HIM to decide to end it. Please - end it yourself! Tell him you're done with it, and then unfriend him, and stop responding to his texts.
 
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