ok so heres the thing. i had a crush on this girl for a long time. and she was dating someone. Regardless i asked for her number and she happily gave it to me. see shes not just my crush, shes my friend. so we text and text....1 days later she said she was regretting her relationship with her current boyfriend. she said he treats her like a football friend and stuff. so then i put the chips on the table and gambled and said to her how ive always felt about her. and....she felt the same way about me. i couldn't believe it. so anyway i do not know what happen but i know shes not dating her boyfriend, so i don't know if he dumped her or whatever. on Sunday were going to church then im heading to her house for their super bowl party. i don't like sports but i would like to meet her parents. its just weird you know? were friends at the moment but we each know we like each other. we do "like" each other. however she says shes not ready for another relationship not just yet. i guess she needs some time or something of the sort. can you girls (or guys...i guess) tell me your opinion of my situation and how long i should wait before actually asking her out.
uh need girl advice, preferably from girls lol?
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Hey I'm in the same situation (kinda of) chris! I broke up with my girlfriend who I dated for 15 months and I met another girl who was with her ex for for 9 months. The girl I'm dating now was my friend awhile ago and likes me too but she wants to take it slow and not rush into a relationship.
I recommend just going to the party, introducing yourself to the parents, and try to hang out with her. It might be tough because it will be a loud football game. What you can do on the other hand is ask her if she'd like to get some coffee at Starbucks, get some lunch/dinner, or walk in a shopping mall. That's what I've done so far to get to know the other girl that likes me.
You just have to go with the flow, take it slow, and respect that fact that she needs "time" to get over the guy and truly love you. I mean think about it for a second. It's really not fair for you if she likes you but still has feelings/loves her ex still right? Just enjoy the dating for now and make sure to close (kiss her) when the time is right in about 2-3 months from now.
Respect her and she'll bring down her walls, eventually she'll go out with you but plays your cards right. She already said she likes you. Be patient and close when you can.
Best of luck! I'm in the same situation! haha
I recommend just going to the party, introducing yourself to the parents, and try to hang out with her. It might be tough because it will be a loud football game. What you can do on the other hand is ask her if she'd like to get some coffee at Starbucks, get some lunch/dinner, or walk in a shopping mall. That's what I've done so far to get to know the other girl that likes me.
You just have to go with the flow, take it slow, and respect that fact that she needs "time" to get over the guy and truly love you. I mean think about it for a second. It's really not fair for you if she likes you but still has feelings/loves her ex still right? Just enjoy the dating for now and make sure to close (kiss her) when the time is right in about 2-3 months from now.
Respect her and she'll bring down her walls, eventually she'll go out with you but plays your cards right. She already said she likes you. Be patient and close when you can.
Best of luck! I'm in the same situation! haha
good luck hunwhats the sense in waiting if she really likes u shell say yes but if she says no then she is still hung up on her ex in that case no sense in dating her at all(she wont be all there like devoted to u) shell always be thinking about him...will be very depressing...but yeah ill ask her out on sunday good luck!