more who dont pay? Every year we go on a family vacation. The cost of the cabin (mountains) is divided by 4. my mother and father in law. bro in law and his wife. Other bro in law and his wife and kids. and us. well my oldest bro in law can not come so my mother in law had to cover their cost. In return she invited her brother. to take their place. Which is fair because she did have to come up with more of the share. Well her other brother/sis in law niece and great niece are in town and want to go too! She said ok. They do not have to help chip in! im pissed! We had a meeting tonight about what food we were taking who is making dinner what night..the added family isn't making anything or taking anything. This cabin sleeps 10. It has 3 bedroom, and beds spread out. My mother in law expects us to give up our room to his aunt and uncle because of their age (60+). and the other bed room has to be for my sister in law because she is 7 months pregnant. WTH! my kids now have to sleep on air mattresses because there is no beds left, and now i have to give up my room to his aunt and uncle who haven't paid diddly squat? How do you handle this?
Im perfectly ok with kids sharing with us. They are just disappointed because they didnt have a bed last year due to the same circumstances. And I wouldnt mind giving up my bed to my sister in law. but for them to come with out paying a dime, and im forking out the bill for food, i dont find it a little unfair
Im perfectly ok with kids sharing with us. They are just disappointed because they didnt have a bed last year due to the same circumstances. And I wouldnt mind giving up my bed to my sister in law. but for them to come with out paying a dime, and im forking out the bill for food, i dont find it a little unfair