Vacationing On The 3rd Date?

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I think I already know the answer...but...I feel like I need some honest feedback. I'm dating a guy whom I recently met off one of the dating websites. We've been on 2 dates. We've been talking and texting every day for the past week. I'm attracted to him, we have a lot of laughs together, and we seem to get along pretty well. Obviously, I still know very little about him. He loves Philadelphia, and because he lives close by, he always goes there. I told him I've never been, so he asked me to go with him this weekend (stay overnight from Saturday into Sunday). He's 25, and I'm 26...

Guys, gals -- he asked me to spend the night with him in Philly -- is he just looking to "get lucky?" Half of me screams, YES...but the other half of me screams, YOU'RE OVERREACTING. What do you think?
 
He wants to get you in bed; and you're making it easier for him by saying you've never been to Philly. You don't know enough about him to go on a weekend trip; so don't be foolish. When a man asks you to spend the night with him, he expects to have sex with you. If that's not what you want to do, don't go on the trip.
 
If he was looking to just get lucky i dont think he would go on vacation with you for that. He probably wants to enjoy a mice weekend getting to know each other and if sex happens it happens.
 
Wow! I can't believe anyone would even consider such a thing. Sounds like a set-up for a psycho/horror movie thriller. Age doesn't matter. The fact that you don't know hardly anything about this person does. Have you seen the inside of his freezer? Does he have random body parts and dead babies in there? If you haven't seen it, then you don't know. His basement could be a medieval torture chamber for all you know. For your own safety, tell him you'd rather not, you want to get to know him better, make an excuse, tell him you have an irrational fear of cities starting with the letter "P", whatever. Just don't go please. It's not smart...
 
You know ... the net is filled with predators who live for foolish girls like you, who would honestly do an overnight date with a guy that they hardly know.

If you want to run the risk that this guy's a psycho who will tie you up, do unspeakably horrific things to you and then leave you for dead in a swamp somewhere, feel free.

WHAT ARE YOU THINKING !?!?!?!?!
 
Nobody can say if he's just looking to "cut a new notch" or genuinely interested in growing a long-term relationship. Let's assume you're not a virgin, and that you're dating men because YOU like to "get lucky" as much as anyone. It won't break your treasure to take it for a spin on the third date. I say, go for it, nothing worthwhile in life comes without some risk, be it financial risk or emotional risk.
 
Nobody can say if he's just looking to "cut a new notch" or genuinely interested in growing a long-term relationship. Let's assume you're not a virgin, and that you're dating men because YOU like to "get lucky" as much as anyone. It won't break your treasure to take it for a spin on the third date. I say, go for it, nothing worthwhile in life comes without some risk, be it financial risk or emotional risk.
 
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