hii all those lucky-in-love people out there...i need ur advise, suggestions, experience...plzz...i will tell u my situation.. will try to keep it short n simple.......
met this cute, lovin, caring...wonderful guy a month back......he was more of a lonely sole...successful careeer wise though.....we became gud frnds....he shared his past....had an affair with a gal for over 8-9 months.....he loved her with all his heart...she was just flirtin with him all the while...n dumped him 2 months back.......he is terribly heart broken...........Now...im in love with him...n i know he takes me as a vert gud frnd....in fact as he says...best friend.......i tried hintin him my feelings...which he understood n has told me flatly...that after his breakup with his ex..he made up his mind.....tht he wud never marry anyone....he wont be able to luv anyone n giv that place 2 sum1 else....n all that......i respect his feelings.....n didnt push him any further.....im still his gud frnd...n v still share this friend-friend relation....!!
That's the story....but i luv him a lot n wanna c him happy..he doesnt deserve a sad life...bcz of sum flirty gal....what am i 2 do?? is it tht its jst 2 months of his breakup n he is feelin this way..n will change over time...he is a very headstrong n emotional guy...will he ever change????? he likes me a lot ....but to the 'just-friend' extent.....?? do i wait for him...or do i just stay his friend?? what shud i do??
plzzz people gimme sum nice, gud, sensible advise...plz plz plz
met this cute, lovin, caring...wonderful guy a month back......he was more of a lonely sole...successful careeer wise though.....we became gud frnds....he shared his past....had an affair with a gal for over 8-9 months.....he loved her with all his heart...she was just flirtin with him all the while...n dumped him 2 months back.......he is terribly heart broken...........Now...im in love with him...n i know he takes me as a vert gud frnd....in fact as he says...best friend.......i tried hintin him my feelings...which he understood n has told me flatly...that after his breakup with his ex..he made up his mind.....tht he wud never marry anyone....he wont be able to luv anyone n giv that place 2 sum1 else....n all that......i respect his feelings.....n didnt push him any further.....im still his gud frnd...n v still share this friend-friend relation....!!
That's the story....but i luv him a lot n wanna c him happy..he doesnt deserve a sad life...bcz of sum flirty gal....what am i 2 do?? is it tht its jst 2 months of his breakup n he is feelin this way..n will change over time...he is a very headstrong n emotional guy...will he ever change????? he likes me a lot ....but to the 'just-friend' extent.....?? do i wait for him...or do i just stay his friend?? what shud i do??
plzzz people gimme sum nice, gud, sensible advise...plz plz plz