I'm 19, me and my bf/fiancee are trying for a baby the past few months.
His family know we're trying, mine don't. The reason being my parents wouldn't accept it one bit. My mother has nagged me in the past, saying not to have kids for another few years or my life will be ruined etc etc. So it's best to tell them after I get pregnant and act like it was a mix-up with birthcontrol or something. Then they can't argue and will just accept the situation.
Yes I know, I'll burn in hell for lying but I'd rather lie than put up with them complaining and interfering in my life.
I haven't had any check-ups done by my doctor, as far as I know I'm fine and so if my bf. But it's been 6 months and I'm getting paranoid and I want to talk to my doctor about it.
It's the same doctor my parents go to and he knows them a few years. I know these things are confidential but I'm still afraid of something going wrong and my parents finding out.
I don't drive and my doctor is a few miles away so I'd need my parents to drop me there.
My main fear is my doctor will treat me like a child and speak to my parents about it.
I'm not some idiot teenager who wants a baby coz it's cute. Both of us have thought this out, we can support ourselves. My parents, particularly my mother, can be very nosey, interfering and I know she would try to control everything.
I don't know what to do! Should I just leave it and carry on trying, then go to doctor after I get my positive?
Talking to my parents about it is completely 100% out of the question.
His family know we're trying, mine don't. The reason being my parents wouldn't accept it one bit. My mother has nagged me in the past, saying not to have kids for another few years or my life will be ruined etc etc. So it's best to tell them after I get pregnant and act like it was a mix-up with birthcontrol or something. Then they can't argue and will just accept the situation.
Yes I know, I'll burn in hell for lying but I'd rather lie than put up with them complaining and interfering in my life.
I haven't had any check-ups done by my doctor, as far as I know I'm fine and so if my bf. But it's been 6 months and I'm getting paranoid and I want to talk to my doctor about it.
It's the same doctor my parents go to and he knows them a few years. I know these things are confidential but I'm still afraid of something going wrong and my parents finding out.
I don't drive and my doctor is a few miles away so I'd need my parents to drop me there.
My main fear is my doctor will treat me like a child and speak to my parents about it.
I'm not some idiot teenager who wants a baby coz it's cute. Both of us have thought this out, we can support ourselves. My parents, particularly my mother, can be very nosey, interfering and I know she would try to control everything.
I don't know what to do! Should I just leave it and carry on trying, then go to doctor after I get my positive?
Talking to my parents about it is completely 100% out of the question.