ive been with my bf for a year and 4 months on dec.23rd of this year. we love each other so much dat at one point we were engaged. now bcause of the dirtbags ive datd in the past i sorta had trust issues but my bf helped me overcome that wit him n ive trusted him ever since. he's very popular, especially around girls so occassianlly i har that he was flirting wit a girl but i ignore it but the more i heard it the more it got to me. now my best frind since literally nursery school said she saw him flirting wit these two girls and dat he let one girl sit on hiss lap and was touching all over another. knowing me i ripped his a** a new hole. for the 1st time i considered breaking up with him but he begged for a 2nd chance n he go it. its been a month after that and we have tried really hard to fix it but nothing is working. we talk bout it all da time, we havent had sex in over a month,we only really see each other in school, we have been fighting alot more, but we never fought b4 until that incident, n i even gave back my engagement ring back to him. i discussed with him the option of taking a short break, just until after winter break, so we can think about ourselves. we r so stressed wit other things like our families that its affecting us. he REALLY ddnt like this idea becuz he was afraid we were gonna break up eventually but i felt this was our best chance to help us so now we r on our break n im sad n lonely. i havent heard from him in 3 days n his bday is in 2 days n our anniversary the day after. was taking this break the best choice 2 make? was their any other options i cud use?