But now its become the only thing we can afford, my father paid for the house in full and does not live in the same town, and my husband and i pay all the utilities. however my mom and my husband go back and forth all the time. bitching to me about. he moved the Temp, SHE leaves it to low, HE left the door cracked, SHE Left hair in the drain , Its like having kids, My husband is mostly honest about it , but my mom lies a shit load. HE told me to throw away the pillow because they where ugly!. did he or did he say You should get new ones because these are uncomfortable? and she says. SAME THING!!!. we cant afford to leave. and she cant afford to live alone. dad is remarried with kids so hes no help. what do i do.. i walk on tip toes trying to keep the two happy. Even when i am not working there is not enough time in the day to correct the weird things she does in the house. ( like not washing towels until where COMPLETELY OUT) or using the toilet paper all up and not replacing it, i LOVE my mom. But i cant live with her ANYMORE what the heck do we do.. and how do i get them to stop bickering. and get her to stop LIEING. I have confronted her. she always cries and tries to make me feel guilty and when it dosent work she tells my older brother how horrible i am and that i would be first to put her in a home over him.. UGH )(#$()*$#@)($*( Im going to go crazy!