Need some help deciding on whether to give this religion another chance or move on. I converted when I met my husband. I had been going to the catholic church with a friend but was really inspired to continue when I met my husband. He grew up in catholic schools and was the most wonderful person I had ever met. I thought it was the religion that made him this way and still do believe that. My problem isn't really with the religion but catholics themselves. My husband and my one friend are the only catholics I have met that inspire me. Other catholics just seem gossipy, judgmental and superior. I realize I am being judgmental but only because I opened my heart to the people in this faith and I feel totally disappointed and let down. I was hoping to feel included and apart of something really wonderful. Instead I feel judged, gossiped about and like I really don't belong. What can I do to change this? I am not ready to give up. I like the peace I feel when I pray at mass but I can pray at home or at any church. Are all catholics this way or have I just had bad experiences in my church? Honest answers please, I am really trying to figure this out.