I find it really hard on dates to keep a conversation flowing, mainly because of nerves, but also because i'm not a very good conversationalist. What topics can i talk about on dates? Also always after the first date i never hear back from the girl/s, so i must be doing something wrong. I'll arrange a 2nd date, but it never happens, so what must i do? People always say make the girl laugh is best, but i'm always so nervous on dates that it's hard to be funny all the time on a date and i'm always conscious of saying something funny but it ending up sounding stupid and not funny.