What can i do about arguing with my boyfriend/babys daddy all the time?

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Okay i have a 6 month old baby, and me and her daddy is always fighting now days! and i really (DO NOT) want her to grow up dealing with that kind of stuff... but i also really don't wanna just throw away everything we've worked so hard for! plus i want her to have a happy family. i know i have to put her first and if we can't fix it then i'll do what i have to... but i gotta know first is there a answer because quitting just don't seem right at all!
 
It takes two to argue. That being said if you do not want to argue then don't. Other than that you do not have to argue in front of the child. You can go into another room or wait till she is asleep.
Your child CAN have a happy healthy family without the two of you being together. She might have a happier family if you two are always arguing.
Think to yourself befor you get into a verbal match with him "Will this matter in 5 years?" See how that may help temper your attitude and responces to him.
Have you tried telling him how you feel and what you do not like. Or asked why he is so angry or upset whatever emotion he may be. It may be he is stressed about having a baby and not being a good father or not being able to provide for his child.
 
What yall are arguing worth any value?

Sometimes just bite the bullet you know like pick your battles carefully and that may calm the storm since you want to work things out.

That environment isn't healthy for the baby, glad you are taking notice to change it for her.
 
You guys need to grow up and be parents. Maybe your baby's daddy don't want to play house no more?
 
stop arguing.

Think of the child.

If you two are determined to stay together then get counseling so you can learn to work your problems out.

If that isn't an option then walk away...you will only have more of this to look forward to.
 
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