Ok long story short:
-Mom died when i was 9 and was left with a 3 year old brother to take care of.
-Relatives hated my dad for some reason and blamed him for my mom's dead (not true) and said nasty things about him. They treated me like garbage, i was ignored. Jealous of me because i was academically better and financially better off.
-I took my dads side but realisz that heis emotionally cold to me and i felt ignored by everyone. Felt like an alien, felt like i was hated, felt like i deserve nothing. I got ignored by everyone. and i know they dont like me. Why? I dont know.
Ok so that was the story, now this cousin of mine ( i dont know about her intentions) calls me and tells me what all these relatives talk about me, she tells me a lot of hurtful things like "she can never miss her mother" "what does she think of herself, she doesnt deserve anything". They even tell her to not talk to me as i am bad.
She keeps on telling me all this. I feel maybe she wants to hurt me, make me feel bad. I would never do that to anyone, i would never tell such hurtful things being said about someone to that person. I cry evernight, they talk such things about me, i never did anything bad for them.
What do i do with this 'cousin'?what are her intentions?
i would like to say that all these bad and negatives feelings have been spread by one woman, who probably has a personality disorder and talks bad about us. The bad thing is everyone believes her and she is like the queen.
-Mom died when i was 9 and was left with a 3 year old brother to take care of.
-Relatives hated my dad for some reason and blamed him for my mom's dead (not true) and said nasty things about him. They treated me like garbage, i was ignored. Jealous of me because i was academically better and financially better off.
-I took my dads side but realisz that heis emotionally cold to me and i felt ignored by everyone. Felt like an alien, felt like i was hated, felt like i deserve nothing. I got ignored by everyone. and i know they dont like me. Why? I dont know.
Ok so that was the story, now this cousin of mine ( i dont know about her intentions) calls me and tells me what all these relatives talk about me, she tells me a lot of hurtful things like "she can never miss her mother" "what does she think of herself, she doesnt deserve anything". They even tell her to not talk to me as i am bad.
She keeps on telling me all this. I feel maybe she wants to hurt me, make me feel bad. I would never do that to anyone, i would never tell such hurtful things being said about someone to that person. I cry evernight, they talk such things about me, i never did anything bad for them.
What do i do with this 'cousin'?what are her intentions?
i would like to say that all these bad and negatives feelings have been spread by one woman, who probably has a personality disorder and talks bad about us. The bad thing is everyone believes her and she is like the queen.