Actually, it's not too hard to guarantee if you do it all yourself and keep it all yourself (not even giving him access). I have some naked pics like that which my ex took but which he never got to keep and didn't even know where I kept them (and we've broken up and I think he's moved on anyway). Maybe they could still get out somehow but I look fine so I think I'd get over it. I've never been motivated to tape so far but maybe one day. I don't think I'd really want to watch it though so not much point.
Rofl, ay, ay, ay...
depends on your level of modesty, openness, and professional aspirations - now and many years from now.
If you plan to be a porn star and you're good at what you do and look good doing it, maybe not much to lose, but if you have plans for another field, it could come back to bite you at the worst possible time and place.
If you have the ability to erase it before there is any possibility that a copy has been made...
If you trust the person involved with your life...
If you have no concern that being viewed in a compromising position could ever have a negative impact on your life or those you love...
If, if, if....
If wishes were horses, we'd all have a horse my friend.
Consider possible consequences, and decide if you'd be willing to deal with them and how.
Set your personal limits and conditions based on this.
Have fun, enjoy every moment of life, but be smart.
I would not want to be filmed during sex, or anything leading up to sex. With my luck it would end up on YouTube and my mom would see it, lol. I wouldn't even want nude or semi-nude pictures taken for the same reason.