There's this guy that I have met online. We ended up liking each other, and it turns out he isn't far away from me. I never did this online dating before, as this is my first time. At first, we just started chatting a lot online. He has been wanting to meet me for the last 2 months and I basically told him that I won't meet with him till a couple of months later. He said he understands, and that he is patient, but he is struggling with not being able to even hang out with me when we only live about half an hour drive from each other. The reason I make him wait is because...well...I do not look my best right now. I have gained so much weight the last few months, and I am now ready to lose it. I want to be my best so I can act my best, and not be around him and feel like crap. It's not him, it's more me. He tells me that he doesn't care, but the fact is, I am the one that cares. If I can't feel my best, I can't act my best. I have my own logic in regards to that. So before, we started talking on the phone a lot. He would call me everyday, and we'd be talking on the phone. Slowly, he just started texting me more and the calls stopped. So now he doesn't even call me anymore, but he still urges me to go meet with him. I know he's a good guy , but I can't meet him right now. I feel like he's punishing me by not calling me anymore. I know that he is tired of waiting so long. I'm not saying he's not willing to wait, he has just stopped calling me, and have resorted to nothing but texting. Do you think I'm overreacting or do you agree with what he is doing? Why do you think he's doing that? I talked to him about it, and I said I'm sad that we don't talk on the phone anymore. And then he said that he's sad that we never hang out. I don't know if he's trying to prove a point, or maybe he doesn't like me as much anymore since he stopped calling? Tell me what you think, thanks!