I am a girl, I can't BLAHblahBLAH!
But seriously, it's fun. Can't I do what I want?
That means boys are whores. Is THAT what you are implying?
How do you make them think they are calling the shots and still me pursue them?
I was also a chaser. Because I had good self esteem a lot of guys were apparently afraid to ask me out. So if I wanted a date (like for my prom) I had to ask the guy out.
It works out well if you like shy guys (like I do) that way you don't have to have him struggling to ask you out when you know he likes you, but he is just afraid to ask.