So my ex and I are good friends. We met 12 years ago and have been on and off in each others lives since then. No matter how much time goes by, he ALWAYS finds a way of getting ahold of me. For example, I hadnt talked to him in at least 6 months one time when my cell phone got turned off. He shocked me by calling the house phone wondering what happend to me lol. Then another time, he knew where I worked and he called there looking for me. Funny thing is and always has been, everytime I think about him or mention him (keep in mind it could be a year since ive heard from him!), he calls or gets ahold of me somehow. Its sooooo crazy!!!
Even though we have been in other relationships, we still kept in touch. He lived with his gf which was kinda far from me, but he has a friend that stays 20 min from my house. They broke up and now hes living with his friend and calls me to see me from time to time. We both have busy lives and we barely see each other as much as we would like to, but he tells me all the time thru texts that he wants me and hes always loved me.. even when he was in his own relationships. (he tattoed my name on his arm when he was 16 and hes already going to be 27!) I do have feelings and love for him somewhere deep down. When my last relationship failed, he was there for me and there were many times as teenagers i was there for him. But I think he sometimes comes around when he has nothing else to do too. I only say this because when I would text him sometimes, he wouldnt respond for a few days and then text me saying whats up as if I never said anything to him or if he does its "i fell asleep". What I want to know is....what do you assume hes thinking? Why does he push and then pull away? Hes not wanting a relationship right now he said so he cant be wanting me back...i dont know what he wants from me. Its def more then friendship because he always says he wants me sexually. But ya cant say its just for the sex either because of the way he looks at me and makes me feel like im the most beautiful girl in the world! I feel such ties to him because weve been thru alot. In fact I even miscarried our baby back in 2005 which he took worse than I did (at one time he wasnt a good bf lol) Anyone got a clue whats going on considering the explaination I gave above? lol I dont think I want him back because theres trust issues there still, but even if I did, I couldnt approach him that way in fear of rejection. Can someone give me some words of wisdom???
lol Thanks!
Even though we have been in other relationships, we still kept in touch. He lived with his gf which was kinda far from me, but he has a friend that stays 20 min from my house. They broke up and now hes living with his friend and calls me to see me from time to time. We both have busy lives and we barely see each other as much as we would like to, but he tells me all the time thru texts that he wants me and hes always loved me.. even when he was in his own relationships. (he tattoed my name on his arm when he was 16 and hes already going to be 27!) I do have feelings and love for him somewhere deep down. When my last relationship failed, he was there for me and there were many times as teenagers i was there for him. But I think he sometimes comes around when he has nothing else to do too. I only say this because when I would text him sometimes, he wouldnt respond for a few days and then text me saying whats up as if I never said anything to him or if he does its "i fell asleep". What I want to know is....what do you assume hes thinking? Why does he push and then pull away? Hes not wanting a relationship right now he said so he cant be wanting me back...i dont know what he wants from me. Its def more then friendship because he always says he wants me sexually. But ya cant say its just for the sex either because of the way he looks at me and makes me feel like im the most beautiful girl in the world! I feel such ties to him because weve been thru alot. In fact I even miscarried our baby back in 2005 which he took worse than I did (at one time he wasnt a good bf lol) Anyone got a clue whats going on considering the explaination I gave above? lol I dont think I want him back because theres trust issues there still, but even if I did, I couldnt approach him that way in fear of rejection. Can someone give me some words of wisdom???
lol Thanks!