What is his deal? is he interested? or just wants attention? (IMPORTANT) hahaha!?

Victoria

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okay so there is this guy, who im interested in. I see him at the gym alot. I been seeing him since december of 2009. He has been showing some signs, i think? hmm..lol.
signs;
in december; he would always come to the water fountain at the same time as me. MORE then once a night sometimes. this would happen almost every day for about two or three weeks.
-he will look at me, then look away. but sometimes are eyes will lock.
-his friend always stares me down, like he's watching me.
-he will do excerise near me or next to me.
-he will walk by me, even if it takes longer to get to where he has to go.
-he looks at me when im talking to other boys. once i saw his friend there and i guess the guy im interested in was walking to him. his friend said "your gf is here" (there were no other girls present) the friend then left. the guy im interested in (lets just call him unknown name) kept staring at me after. I DID GET A HAIRCUT ON THAT NIGHT. lol. hm. he gives me more attention tho when im with people. a couple of other things he has done. i was about to go tanning with my friend,and we had to wait. he saw me. about 10 seconds later he comes, and waits. we wait for about 5 mins. i WASNT lookin at him, and my friend said he kept looking at me. another thing is that once he came to the gym, and right away he asked my bro if he was done with a machine. he walks away for a couple of seconds and comes back to wait like 4 feet away. okay so i do watch him sometimes, and he's not the type to wait. idk if hes interested. he carries himself in a confident way. and once i held the door for him, and my friend held the other one, cuz she got confused and he didnt even say thank you or anything. well he did have his ipod headphones but idk. hes weird..oh and another thing is when the "unknown name" is with his friend his FRIEND talks loud for me to hear, but when hes talking to other people he wont. like wtf. he does talk to this one girl, and the first day i saw them talking she ran on a tredmil next to me, when there were 8359384534 aviable...she didnt say anything or give me a dirty look. so IDK. maybe he just wants attention? or he's interested. BUT the only thing i do is look at him, sometimes. and i even tried that whole "avoiding thing" ( I DIDNT LOOK AT HIM AT ALL, AND I WOULD TAKE A LONGER TIME GETTING TO AN EXCERISE MACHINE) and he still does the same ****.....WTF?! lol

LIKE I SAID BEFORE. HE IS CONFIDENT. actually more like cocky, but it's not like im following him and ****. i will just look at him sometimes, and actually i barely even look at him anymore, but he still does all this.

the latest thing he has done is just do excerise near me or next to me. yesterday i saw him as i was leaving and he was basically at the stairs so i waited and he looked at me. and stood in front of me for like 3 seconds, lookin at his ipod or something, but i felt really weird. lol. i just looked down. i only feel comfortable around him if im talking to someone, but if im by myself i get really nervous.
whats his deal? (sorry for the whole paragraph) PLZ NO RUDE COMMENT.
oh and he is about 21-24. so idk! wdh?
 
I think he's interested in you, it seems more than just just attention or wanting to fool around with you or anything cause he seems to always want to be around you. Sorry I couldn't understand what you wrote very well but have you spoke to him and stuff? You should try starting a converstaion with him as he seems really interested in you. Good luck! :)
 
I don't know, this just sounds like a staring contest so far. What do you want this guy to do or to know? Are you interested in him? If so, let the guy know it and stop playing silly staring games.
 
He thinks your attractive but it seems like he is shy which is weird.

I would talk to him in person if you are interested in him.
 
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