what kinda relationship was this if there was never no PDA only confusion!

livelovelaugh1

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what can i do know that he has a gf? i told him i like him and that i loved him last year.
i never knew that LOVE was such a powerful word btw
i just did alot of flirting wit him during few months
he started to like me too.
but he thought i took him as a game.
cuz when he wanted to hug me i sed no
when he wanted to sit near me i sed i didnt want him der.
but slowly i started lovin him for real!
he ask me out but at the end of the day he dump me!
i told him y but he never told me y.
he still kept starin at me and smiling and tellin me i was awesome!
i had my hopes up until i found out he ask another gurl out.
i heard he was talkin abut me.somethin abut me and this gurl and how another gurl like him but i was much better!
i knew he like me cuz he look at me when he hug her gf
i even heard my ex's gf saying how much my ex was hurtin her.
and when he was away from mei heard him sayin my name!
i was like y arent we together!

i decided to do something abut it but he was huggin his gf.
bummer to me but yea it was the last day of skol.
evey1 was sayin goodbye.and my ex was huggin every1 but me!
i look at him and went into tears!
outside i went by him cryin and he look at me and ran away from me!
i started cryin more and scream his name sayin not to leave. he look and smile.
the next week at graduation practice he look at me and started talkin abut me.and smilin at me.i avoid and try to hide.
i wanted to talk to him but he was w/ his gf.

at graduation after 2 days he still kept lookin at me.but since i avoid him and he avoid me as well.
when the ceremony ended i startedto cry cuz it was the end u know!
i was leavin until i look bak and my ex was there.
he didnt talk at all he just open his arms to hug me.
i hug him tightly.all he sed was "damn".
i left.....til now i dont see him



but any advise on wat to do? i still like him!
 

Brooke

Member
Let this one go. He has a girlfriend and what you both had is done now. The nice thing (and sucky thing) about the summer after graduation is you get change to prepare for a new beginning. Don't go into this new beginning hanging on to things from this closed chapter of you life. There will be other guys. (Trust me there are over 6 billion people in the world there are definitely other guys! Lol!)

For now just find some way to lick your wounds. Perhaps writing a diary or something will help.

I think part of this is regret that you didn't take his attention when he was giving it to you (see: "I Want You Back" by: Cleopatra [a remake of the Jackson 5 hit]) You got the "coulda-shoulda-wouldas" really bad! Lol! Unfortunately it's too late now.

Also, "love" is a very powerful word that why you should never say it unless you mean it. Feelings are not always the best indicator of love because feelings come and go, but love isn't fickle like that.

Female Rule # 2: Never be the reason why another girl's relationship gets ruined.

...nuff said.
 

jewnig94

New member
nothin u can do until he breaks up with his g/f
that was pretty d#ck on his part that he wouldnt hug you goodbye
he is probably playin wit your emotions like you did to him
 
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