What should I do? (my little sister hits, kicks, pushes, punches, and argues with...

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JustinlBieberlislMine

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...me)? My very evil, annoying little sister always calls me names, argues with me, and hits me. Then, she fake cries and tells on me for hitting her, when I do nothing. She always gets me in trouble. What should I do when she hits, kicks, pushes, punches, argues with me and calls me names?
A: Hit and argue back
B: Ignore her
C: Tell on her
D: Argue back and hit her
E: Ignore and tell on her
F: Other (If so, please explain what I should do.)
G: All of the above
 
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BiancaD

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ignore her , give her the silent treatment dont talk to her untill she"s really sorry even if it takes ages.explain to her though after a while that you dont like the way she treated you and you wont talk to osme like that.i have 2 anoying brothers so i understand they bite and hit all the time! but 1 has add the other has somthing called disparxia!
 
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peculiarpup

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When it's going on, don't give her anything to go on. Ignore her completely. Don't say anything, don't do anything. Act as though she's not there, nothing's happening.

When she is behaving herself, give her attention. Smile, play with her.

This is a type of behavioral training. Reward what you like, withhold attention when you don't like what's happening.

Of course, this means no holding grudges. When she is being friendly, reward that by giving her attention. No mentioning what she did an hour ago.

You do need to talk to your parents. Try it when nothing is going on at the moment. Tell them that you're having trouble with your sister (talk to them without her around) and thatyou want them to know you're trying something new -- then explain your "reward good behavior" plan. Tell them it may take a while to pay off, but you're willing to be patient. They can help by not getting involved. If your sister runs to them making all sorts of claims, they should just tell her that they hope she can find a way to work things out with you.

She needs to learn to control her outbursts for her own happiness as well as yours, and to get along with others.
 
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FlyGuym

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Tell your parents the things she has done. Or just kick her back. I get in fights with siblings that end up in bloody scabs. Good luck
 
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