I have a friend who calls me often. Okay, she doens't "complain" exactly but she just goes on and on about how her life sucks because she never gets good grades, her boyfriend dumped her, etc. She is a really caring nice girl, but she just doesn't know how to handle things well. I have known her for years now and she hasn't changed since 5 years ago. We're both highschoolers now. She needs me to organize her thoughts out for her to deal with teh situation. But honestly, I am so tired now. I want her to be able to figure things on her own and not call me all the time. I have my own problems and I am fed up. Please help! What should I say or do to make her realize this--but without hurting her? She doesn't have friends beside me really.