I met a guy almost 2 months ago. We got on so well. We were chatting all the time. he was texting me, emailing me. He told his mum, his sister, his boss and his friends about me as they said that he should find himself a girlfriend. He lives a very busy life so do I. We both said we want serious relationships and we both are in our early thirties. He organised such a lovely date for me and we really got on well. The problem is that my ex got involved and things got dificult. my ex was blackmailing me and he did not want to leave me alone. This new guy told me that I must sort it out for my own sake but it really freaked him out. Since then has been distant. the second problem is that we slept together too soon. I had no real physical relationship with my ex and so meeting this new guy was just so great and I kind of lost myself in it. I regret it. I wish I waited. He said that he wants to see me again but he does not want to have sex with me. We still chat but he is not asking me out. He said that he has been extremely busy with his job and he is moving a house, closer to me. His pursuit is not as it used to be and I don't know what to do? I really like him.