What's the etiquette when greeting foreign women in a country where...

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...kisses are customary? Should I shake everyone's hands, male and female. Should I give the two kisses to all the Spanish women and offer a handshake to the English women or do I have to figure it out for each and every woman that is there depending on how she happens to be feeling that day?
 
Give the English women handshakes and give the Spanish women the two kisses.
 
For Spanish greeting it has always been etiquette/customary to give two kisses on cheek with your cheek. This may seem a bit weird at but many people do it in Spanish speaking countries. Men? I'm not sure I haven't kissed a man's cheek but women's yes.
English women because of a different culture don't expect the kiss so a hand shake will do, or sometimes not even a hand shake, but I generally think that the Spanish etiquette is world accepted now.
Hope it helped.
 
No that'd be really odd, you need to kiss everyone or nobody. Im assuming its a social situation as people don't kiss at business meetings. Just look for cues as to what everybody else is

Im English but i live in Mexico so i kiss everybody on the cheek as standard...you tend to do whatever is normal in the country you're in. English women don't have any special attitudes to personal space (well not more so that other countries!) but i think they would find it odd if you were going around the group - kiss kiss handshake kiss kiss handshake. Itd make you look awkward
 
Usually I find in Europe everybody kisses - particularly the folk around the Med, even if you have only met them for the first or second time. But sometimes that isn't always the case; and English women can be funny about "being too familiar". The safest way is to go for a handshake for everybody; then if people decide to initiate kisses, then go with it.
 
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