When my ex gets out of jail how should I introduce our child to him?

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When my ex gets out of jail how should I introduce our child to him?
I know this is a long way off but I still think about it.
Background-I have a 3 month old and her father got locked up for fighting a month before she was born during the pregnancy he wasn't there and made things extremly hard for me, now that he's lonely behind bars he is trying to show his ointerest in both of us but I could care less, but I'm not going to keep him out our daughters life if he wants to be there but I'm not sure how long he will be locked up and if it's more than a year how do I introduce him into her life (do I say this is your daddy?) and I currently have a new boyfriend that is around and loves my daughter me and him have known each other since high school and I see the relationship going far far and I'm a little worried that my daughter might end up calling him daddy (well I'm not to worried my ex is and has expressed that he does not want that to happen,but I feel as though he should have thought about that before he got locked up and before he wanted to be a douche and leave me pregnant for another girl.
What are your thought on the situation?
3 seconds ago - 4 days left to answer.
Fight was not with me(I don't play that!!!) and I don't want my ex in no way I'm extremly happy with my new boyfriend I'm just worried abt introductions when my ex first meets his daughter and how he's gonna blow up if she decideds to call my new boyfriend daddy
 
please...dump your trash and run...no introduction needed

your child not to mention yourself deserve better..you have to know and believe that...

in your heart...

sweetheart don't be stupid again...he is being kind because he will needs a roof and 3 meals that he is use to in jail...now he will have the comfort of your couch ....and bed and you...why

you owe him nothing...

if he wants to see his child he needs to pay back child support...he needs to get a job and find a place to live...then he can file and take you to court...for his child...

now honestly you don't think he is going to make that much effort

what does he have to offer the child...?

what does he have to offer you...he needs to get his life on track

don't fall for the sweet talk...he will soon be getting drunk on your dime and beating you around again...

i would seek a restraining order so you could get your life on a different better course...move out of the area...

you owe him nothing he has lived off the tax payers long enough...let him move on...it wasn't meant to be

good luck

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i think a child should know their father, a couple times a year is enough for a person to look back and feel loved but i dont think its wrong for your child to call the other guy dad. i am 17 and have a father like this he wasnt around so i felt unloved as a child but at the same time i know my mom was right for making him leave. he used to see me once a year and then i knew he cared but when i didnt see him for over 7 years then i felt i wasnt worth his time. make this guy prove himself as a dad and leave everything else out of it. hope this helps :)
 
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