I don’t understand why I am having trouble meeting women. I have great personality, I have the balls to go over to a group of strangers with talking to them and they would just blow me off, treat me like I am weird, and not talk at all and this happens all the time! I think its better to be outgoing rather than me just sitting by myself in silence and being creepy. My friends are never around to support me and I have to go by myself to mingle with people but when I do, I would introduce myself and it gets really awkward and I would say to the women: “Hi, I would like to come over here and talk to you. I seem lost and just wanted to come by and sit with you guys if that’s alright.” And I would just be honest, be myself and I would say: “I’m so and so.. what are your names?” and they would be very rude, arrogant, and say: “Um I think we are going to go.” Or they would give me one word answers and ignore me and tonight at this event, I went home crying in tears ever since this woman started walking away from me, blew me off, and just treated me like I was a psychopath and I even went over and said to her: “Hey sorry if I was bothering you, I really was just trying to make a conversation and be friendly.” And this woman ignored me and just walked away with not saying anything and it made me furious!
WHY CAN’T I HAVE ATTENTION WHEN I GO OUT?!!!! I have aspergers by the way and I am really trying to improve on my social skills BUT NOONE TALKS TO ME AND DOESN’T WANT TO GET TO KNOW ME! I AM GETTING SICK OF PAYING HIGH MONEY ATTENDING SINGLES EVENTS AND THEY ARNT REALLY SINGLES EVENTS SINCE THEY MET SOMEONE! How can I solve this problem? I really want to write a complaint to the organizer of this event but I don’t want to be too desperate, rude, or anything like that but I want to tell her the problem because at this point, my feelings are really hurt and I don’t want to have a bad reputation! In fact, I am really losing sleep over this, can’t focus at work, and its driving me crazy with my life affecting me and making me worried! Any advice?
WHY CAN’T I HAVE ATTENTION WHEN I GO OUT?!!!! I have aspergers by the way and I am really trying to improve on my social skills BUT NOONE TALKS TO ME AND DOESN’T WANT TO GET TO KNOW ME! I AM GETTING SICK OF PAYING HIGH MONEY ATTENDING SINGLES EVENTS AND THEY ARNT REALLY SINGLES EVENTS SINCE THEY MET SOMEONE! How can I solve this problem? I really want to write a complaint to the organizer of this event but I don’t want to be too desperate, rude, or anything like that but I want to tell her the problem because at this point, my feelings are really hurt and I don’t want to have a bad reputation! In fact, I am really losing sleep over this, can’t focus at work, and its driving me crazy with my life affecting me and making me worried! Any advice?