why didnt he text me back?Is he loosing interest?

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There is this guy that I'm talking to. He know's i just got out of an engagement and is very sweet and taking things slow...because his brother is acutallly friends with my ex and yelled at him for even talking to me.He is getting heat from a lot of his friends,because they all know my ex.
He knows we just broke up about a month ago. I did the breaking up because he was verbally/emotionally abusive, and it was long over due. Therefore, I feel ready to move on.

This guy asks me to go for walks with him every week..to get to know eachother better.
I met him out one night when he was drunk...bumped into him and he told me how " infatuated he was with me" and that he never met anyone like me...he even went on to saying he wanted to take me to his brothers wedding.

I agree being i just got out of an engagement, taking things slow is good but..texting me once or twice a week..and going for an hour walk once a week to get to know eachother?He is being very respectful and sweet..but taking things almost too slow.
If i text him he always takes like hours to write back.. and sometime doesnt answer at all!
I like him just hope he's really interested.
 
If you want to know if he likes you or not then stop all texts and dont be available next time he want to take a walk. Trust me, if he likes you he will wonder why you're not showing him the same attention. Then you will see a difference, good or bad.
 
he's probably just trying to see how he feels about things, maybe he's not a HUGE texter either. But i think if he's worth it you'll be patient and wait. :)
 
would you date a guy your sister friend has dated? and everybody in your crew knows that he dated your sisters friend..?
 
I think he is definitely interested. Look hun, guys don't exactly wear their emotions or feelings on their sleeves. We tend to be reserved, and its a good thing too! It's called being a Challenge, and it drives women crazy! Think about it- he's got your interest now doesn't he? Aren't you wondering what he will do next?

Women want to be excited. Predictability kills romance. Hopefully, this guy knows what he's doing and he'll start to make a move. If he's taking too long, you can try subtly hinting at your interest in him with positive body language, eye contact, flirting, smiles, all that jazz. And if he still won't bite, he's either not interested or just a pussy. And you want nothing to do with either.
 
To be honest, I didn't read the whole description. You need to relax and have fun with him a lot of the time.

Play some games with him. I personally like it when a girl temps me.

Have fun! Bye
 
He is probably not losing interest. He might think that he is taking things too fast believe it or not. He wants to make sure that he is not just a rebound guy. So be patient and he will eventually come around. He is probably nervous and doesnt want to mess things up.
 
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