AwesomeMe1
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First of, my grammar in this is going to be horrible; I know what I want to say, but cannot think of how to say it properly.
So, I have been dating for a while now, both online and "in person". I have noticed that quite a few girls say that no one ever asks them out and no one ever says that they are attractive. Most of them I have a genuine interest in, so I write to them (online) or ask them out on a date. But here's the thing, these girls who complain that the never have dates or are unattractive almost always refuse a date.
I know that I am not, for lack of a better word, ugly; so why is it that the girls who complain are the first to say no to a date? This is something that I do not understand, someone is asking you out, but you say no and then complain that you never get asked out on dates.
So, I have been dating for a while now, both online and "in person". I have noticed that quite a few girls say that no one ever asks them out and no one ever says that they are attractive. Most of them I have a genuine interest in, so I write to them (online) or ask them out on a date. But here's the thing, these girls who complain that the never have dates or are unattractive almost always refuse a date.
I know that I am not, for lack of a better word, ugly; so why is it that the girls who complain are the first to say no to a date? This is something that I do not understand, someone is asking you out, but you say no and then complain that you never get asked out on dates.