Why do I lose interest so easily?

[Wednesday]

When it comes to dating anyone, I feel like it just doesn't matter to me all that much.
I feel much stronger emotions for guys as friends, like they're brothers and that's something that really matters to me.
But I don't really like all the flirting that sometimes happens because it just seems so disingenuous. And because I'm a girl it's easy to get it, but because of that, I don't want it.
I had one failed relationship that lasted a very short time because I simply had no feelings whatsoever. I know I'm straight, so it's not a sexuality thing...
And if ever I get a little crush or am attracted to someone, I don't really pursue it or care about it all that much because the feelings aren't all that strong anyway. I'd rather just continue a friendship with the person. It just seems like a huge risk ad waste of time to try anything more.
I'm still a virgin though, and 20 years old...
Do you people READ properly?
I AM attracted, I just seem disinterested in pursuing the traditional process of dealing with these attractions.
And why the hell is being a virgin such a good thing?
Because the bible says so?
I'm really sick of this halo view over being a virgin. It actually sucks and it's really awkward when everyone else is having sex regularly,

 

[Thomas]

So friendships matter most to you but you are surrounded by a bunch of hormonally challenged guys who cannot help but like you as a friend, but also desire you are a attractive woman. It sounds like you find guy friends easier than female friends and you are not all wrong guys often are just more fun.

That said you must understand that lasting friendship between sexes is a rare thing in spite of everyone claiming otherwise - few are basing their knowledge on more than few years experience and truth is that nearly always one or the other will begin to desire a more romantic or sexual relationship and friendship is altered no matter what happens.

Human bonding has been well studied and male and female s[pending toe together will bond romantically even if they desire not to - think about all the movies who have taken unlikely couples and forced them together and sooner or later love grows - why? Because it is human nature -a programed response.

I do not think anything is wrong with you just that you are really not ready yet to pursue romance and a bit resentful when men cannot but see you as a possible partner