Why do I need a clingy girl in order to be happy with a relationship?

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john

Active member
if she doesn't text me back, or doesn't like holding hands all the time, i freak out and think something is wrong. WHY AM I LIKE THIS?1?!?
 
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smiley

Member
maybe you need to feel the security of knowing that a girl loves u just as much as u do her, maybe u don't want to be the one who loves too much, and often gets hurt. Its a nice change i might say, often guys like the secure, independent girls. I wouldn't exactly call it a flaw, u just like to feel loved and in my opinion there is nothing absolutely wrong with that
 
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tammy

Member
You're probably just more affectionate. You need to feel like the feelings are mutual and that everything in the relationship is right. It's perfectly natural. You probably just want a girl who makes it clear how much she cares about you and wants to be with you. It's fine, and definitely not a bad thing. Many girls will appreciate that.
 
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KJR

New member
You're insecure. And a clingy girls gives you no room to have insecurities because she's always there. If she's texting you she clearly cares, but if she's not then you question why. That sort of thing isn't healthy, but tbh I'm the same, I need my boyfriend to text me back quickly. You need to relax and accept that any6 girl who is going out with you wants to be with you, then you wont need her to be so clingy.
 
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alec

Member
I am the same way I think it is because I end up getting really attached to a girl and It makes me feel like I have everything in the world I Want right with me, really I think it is just our personality's
 
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