Why do lesbian chicks seem to like soft butch or butchish other chicks?

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GirlSkin

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I am very femme and my gf is soft butch and very pretty.
I wonder though why it seems most lesbians prefer chicks that are kind of soft butch sporty types rather than femmes. (I like soft butch too) but I noticed that very few lesbian chicks are attracted to me as I suppose i am 'girly' - not princess just femme.
Everyone is VERY surprised when they find out I am gay as I look so girly.
 
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Stephanie

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My partner and I are both considered "soft butch" neither find ultra fem, or super butch attractive. So I duno *shrugs* Variety of life I guess. You like what you like.
 
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