Not to side with either gender but isn't it strange why people doesn't bother how they look or portray after they got into a stable relationship or marriage? Won't they be afraid if all these will spoil the relationship? Or they are just plain old confident that he/she will love him/her no matter what they become since it has been so long?
I know you guys gonna say something like "you don't know what is love"
But the point is if you not gonna love yourself do you deserve somebody to love you more?
Its just like you got fat and lazy after a marriage and refuse to do anything about it. But since you know your partner will still love you no matter what you just gonna heck care about it. But seriously, those things are just gonna be a negative impact on the relationship.
I'm gonna be frank about this, if my partner gets into an bad accident, some incurable diseases or something else i will still love him/her as much as i do. But if he/she gets fat,lazy or doesn't even bother about maintaining themselves, those thing that can be controlled by ourselves? I'm just gonna start deducting the points, period.
I know you guys gonna say something like "you don't know what is love"
But the point is if you not gonna love yourself do you deserve somebody to love you more?
Its just like you got fat and lazy after a marriage and refuse to do anything about it. But since you know your partner will still love you no matter what you just gonna heck care about it. But seriously, those things are just gonna be a negative impact on the relationship.
I'm gonna be frank about this, if my partner gets into an bad accident, some incurable diseases or something else i will still love him/her as much as i do. But if he/she gets fat,lazy or doesn't even bother about maintaining themselves, those thing that can be controlled by ourselves? I'm just gonna start deducting the points, period.