The reason these people spread rumors about every one is they have so little self esteem it makes them feel better to pull every one one ells down, they are the lowest of the low, they cause misery to a lot of people, and they are never happy them selves, they usually get their come upance in the finnish, so don't worry about them, Its a good idea to go out with some other guy and be noticed so that every one can see you have some one ells and not the other one.