Why do women complain on their husbands cheating when it's their own fault?

[KyleGlover]

The easiest way to keep a man from cheating is making him feel appreciated, not nagging and give it to him whenever he wants and stay physically attractive. When a man cheats it's usually because the woman has let her self go and isn't paying any attention to him. Why do women blame the other woman when it's their own fault?

 

[TommyGirl]

I agree with you that the easiest way to keep a man from cheating is making him feel appreciated and don't nag him all the time. I believe that a woman should love her man just as he is and show him. I am not so sure about "the giving it up whenever he wants sex and staying physically attractive" part. That sounds a little immature and selfish to me. Sex is important and men are more visual than women but maybe she's not getting the intimacy/ fulfillment too that she needs from you and that's why she's turning to food, which is making her gain weight. Communication is so important so why people in relationships don't do it is beyond me. If you don't communicate, you won't get to know someones dreams, goals, wants and more. If you make communication your top priority then you should be able to tell her the right way that you want her to lose weight and that you need more sex. Affairs happen for different reasons and sometimes they do happen because a man finds someone who is more attentive to his needs but sometimes men go out looking for it whenever and with whomever they please. Both reasons are wrong in God's eyes but the second reason is JUST AWFUL. If you are acting like a pig change your piggish ways. If you both love each other you will try to reach a mutual agreement. She can't really blame the other woman if she gives you 0 love. Maybe if this is the case she is hoping someone else will come along and take you off her hands.

 

[mari]

Well us women don't want to give "it" up to you anymore because we are tired of your small d!ck.

 

[awftx]

If a person is getting everything that makes them happy at home.... there is no reason they would be looking for whats missing, some where else....

 

[Greg8325]

I completely agree. Cheating could still happen but the odds go way do if women do what you are suggesting.

 

[emotionalzombie7997]

The whole point is why cheat? If the reasoning you are using is you generally do not like her any longer because of flaws, then why not just leave her? It is the mans fault.

 

[Darcy]

I do not condone cheating at all, its a horrible thing to go through.

But you're right.....people cheat because they are missing something. If you're not giving your man attention, or have let yourself put on weight, then you become unattractive.

Theres always a reason..............and the same goes for women.......statistics show that just as many women cheat these days....

EXAMPLE: .......My husband.........He was married to a women before me for 17 years. He was unhappy, and they talked and talked about the reasons, but she did nothing to help or try to fix what was wrong, she would never attend any family functions on HIS side, and theres a thousand more things etc.....he would tell her if things don't change Im going to leave, she didn't think he would.

One day he met a women and he started confiding in her..............and he left.

People don't put up with forever

 

[Hailey]

Because being in a committed relationship isn't about sex all the time- and if a man loves, respects and communicates with his wife they will find common ground. Cheating is never acceptable, it's cowardly and degrading. If a man (or woman, for that matter) wants to cheat, they should have the decency to end the relationship first instead of being a dishonest pig.

 

[Unregistered]

Cheating Husbands

I recently found out that my husband has been cheating on me with supposedly someone that he works with out at his construction site. We have only been married for 5 months, and 3 1/2 months into the marriage he does this. He said that if I hadn't been bitching about money then he wouldn't have done it.
Well I guess I did bitch allot I wanted my husband home. My husband would leave at 6:00 am and not come home until 11:00pm - 2:00am work 6 days a week. If I called him to see where he was at he would not answer his phone, so WTF.
I just don't understand why someone would put another person through such pain. I don't blame the girl. He even told me that the tattoo that he has on his wrist which is my name he told her that it was his daughter!
That's F****ing sick!

 

[RydeeOn]

I get the impression that most wives believe their vagina is so unique and so very special that their husbands will suffer and wait 'til she sees fit to put out .

They are shocked and surprised to learn that other women have vaginae too and it's all good.

 

[Sunflower]

When a man cheats, he does it not because he wants someone paying attention to him but because he thinks he can get away with it. Otherwise, why would he risk a divorce?

 

[Dee_Soh]

Because the wife never wants to admit that it is her own doing that has led the relationship down this path. And it's easier to blame someone else.

In the same way, women cheat on their husbands because the guys have become unattractive to the woman (could be that they are balding, old, fat/ too skinny and even boring)... and it's never the other man's fault, it is the husbands' own!

 

[TheTerminator]

Omg finally I feel exactly the same!!! Similar question I asked:

Answer mine plz: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aq9qlxHBUzaHKLhKG7ZzmAIM_dw4;_ylv=3?qid=20110525205122AAhpUID