Because these very women don't think before they act, my ex-fiancee was one of those ladies who did not think before she acts.
My ex said she weanted this or that and I told her I live on SSI and SSDI and I have to have a job before I get married, cause things she wanted and/or demanded costs money, and im not living in a ghetto and I am not gonna turn myself into a hungry beggar that knocks on doors begging for food.