Why do women value open-mindedness and sense of humor?

[jay]

All other physical characteristics and personality traits equal, why do women (and men) value open-mindedness and sense of humor in a romantic partner? Is there something unappealing about a person who is just serious all the time and knows what he likes and likes what he knows?

WHY is sense of humor and open-mindedness considered a positive trait? =)

 

[Tom]

Women value a sense of humor because it is a sign of a high value man, it shows social competance / power. As for open-mindedness, that is NOT something that women value about a man. They might say that they like it but that is just for appearances - women have ALWAYS adapted their opinions to their own environment and rarely go against the prevailing opinion.

if you are closed minded and a high status male (alpha male) your women will change all of her views to align with your own. even if those views are as close minded as they come.

 

[EliotK]

Whether people know this or not, a sense of humor helps a marriage achieve success. And, being open to your partner's opinions, thoughts, and feelings makes your relationship work.

When I finally let go of thinking that I was usualkt right, and the my wife's opinions were not as important as mine, I found out how wonderful a marriage can be.

 

[Lalacat]

well personally open-mindedness makes me assume the guy is understanding or is open to new things, which i like very much and as for sense of humor who wouldn't like someone to have a laugh with?