Well me and my boyfriend are together since 3 years and get engaged 9 months ago. However I just don’t understand that why he doesn’t show interest in me.
Before whenever we talk on the phone he talk lots to me and even joke but now he ask me to speak as he will only listen and when I tell him that he should talk too he say that he doesn’t have anything to say and if I won’t speak he is going to sleep.
Also when we are in the car, he make as if am not here and when I ask him why he is not talking to me he say that it’s because he is driving but when his cousin or even my father sit with him in the front he keeps on talking and talking with them without stopping. But why doesn’t he do the same with me.
Moreover when we go shopping before we usually walk hands together and go to into any shop to see things together and sometimes even joke as well, now when we walk hands together as if my presence doesn’t make any difference to him or when am going in a shop he tell me to go inside alone as he will wait outside. Why does he do like that with me??
My brother and his girlfriend are together since 5 years and their love is still the same and when she is angry with my brother the latter would cheer her up by saying sweet things to her. But with my boyfriend it’s not the case, when am angry at him he gets even more anger that me and when I cry he tell me stop crying angrily and just cut the phone on my face. But I expect him to say nice things to me like:” sorry sweetheart don’t cry or don’t be angry because you don’t look good like that and you know that I love you very much”. But doesn’t he speak to me like that.
Last week when I was at his place, we watch T.V together then I tell him to talk a bit with me he say that he is tired due to his work, but when his friend came to meet him, he keep on talking for atleast 2 hours.
How come he is like that with others please help me how can I change him
Before whenever we talk on the phone he talk lots to me and even joke but now he ask me to speak as he will only listen and when I tell him that he should talk too he say that he doesn’t have anything to say and if I won’t speak he is going to sleep.
Also when we are in the car, he make as if am not here and when I ask him why he is not talking to me he say that it’s because he is driving but when his cousin or even my father sit with him in the front he keeps on talking and talking with them without stopping. But why doesn’t he do the same with me.
Moreover when we go shopping before we usually walk hands together and go to into any shop to see things together and sometimes even joke as well, now when we walk hands together as if my presence doesn’t make any difference to him or when am going in a shop he tell me to go inside alone as he will wait outside. Why does he do like that with me??
My brother and his girlfriend are together since 5 years and their love is still the same and when she is angry with my brother the latter would cheer her up by saying sweet things to her. But with my boyfriend it’s not the case, when am angry at him he gets even more anger that me and when I cry he tell me stop crying angrily and just cut the phone on my face. But I expect him to say nice things to me like:” sorry sweetheart don’t cry or don’t be angry because you don’t look good like that and you know that I love you very much”. But doesn’t he speak to me like that.
Last week when I was at his place, we watch T.V together then I tell him to talk a bit with me he say that he is tired due to his work, but when his friend came to meet him, he keep on talking for atleast 2 hours.
How come he is like that with others please help me how can I change him