i am trying to understand why my husband would rather look at porn than me. when i told him i want a divorce he said he would leave it but still looks at these things, i had to put a parental block on his phones internet and he threw out his mags and videos, but some how he still makes a plan. We haven't been intimate in years and it sucks! it was never like this, we have been married 4years and it has only been like this for 2or3. he blames it all on stress. He wont talk to me about it so what must i do?