WHY don't you ever hear MEN complaining about women who only want SEX?

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I they definitely exist.

I here so many women whining about "all you want is sex" and "men only want one thing" and blah blah blah...

I've come across some women who really only wanted hook-ups and nothing more.

WHY don't you ever hear men complain about these women?
 
i agree.. there are women who
only want sex... my brothers
exgf only wanted sex to the point
where it was effecting their relationship
so he dumped her...
(she told me this.. not him lol it was hilarious)

but i think men are just more open to talking about sex
and maybe because of that most of them dont set
any real morals sexually... so then women are just like
whoah buddy.. calm down.. idk.. thats how it seems
the majority of the time..
 
I've had that problem before. It's not so fantastic if you are looking for companionship. Plus how are you going to word that complaint to your buddies?
 
Maybe you've just never met them. Believe it or not, Mike, some guys don't think like you!
 
I have. It happens. Some men can't keep up with their girlfriends or wives. They are just too embarrassed to say so.
 
What's important is that Mike T is alluding to the fact that, nowadays, WOMEN ARE LOOSE AND PROMISCUOUS. They're not like they used to be. Nowadays, women feel it's "their right" to be promiscuous and whorish. Even more disgusting is the fact that women like to blame all of their promiscuous activity on men. They like to say that they do what they do because "some man" disappointed them somewhere along the way. The reality is that women nowadays are loose because, sadly, they simply choose this lifestyle.
 
Because that's all that men want, so why would they complain about it. I think you answered your own question:)
 
Because women like that usually make fools out of men, so men don't talk about them.
 
In fact, its not something that a guy would complain about, but I do believe that if it happens to him often enough, he will become disturbed by it. Amazingly, when you tell a guy that you are only interested in a hook up, I think he doesn't believe it at first. He's waiting for the other shoe to drop. But when, in time, he sees that he is only regarded as a convenient booty call - feelings definitely get hurt.
 
I think they do. They call them sluts for the little madonna/whore dichotomy in their heads. They do not complain in the process of pleasure but afterwards they hella lambaste the girl.

I do not think in any way denigrating women's deeper emotional capacity and spiritual significance for sex, actually helps your cause.

You may dislike some of the women here that seem to want to deconstruct our natural differences but should you not appreciate those women who see sex as more then just a biological process and is more about there emotions?
 
I think that most men find it much easier to (emotionally) separate the act of sex from the context of a relationship without thinking that it must come with other entanglements, like a relationship, marriage, or strong feelings of commitment and sensitivity.

Conversely, most women generally associate sex with feelings of commitment, relationship and marriage. Consequently, when when a woman says to a guy, 'all you want is sex,' that generally means that she wants more than sex, in fact, she wants to be in a deeply committed relationship or something more.

Most women, at least those women who participate in non-commital relationships where sex is the central part of it, give their tacit approval to these types of relationships, often times to their own detriment. However, the guy who is involved with this women (the one who gives her tacit approval to this type of relationship) doesn't realize that she commits herself begrudgingly to this type of relationship because she knows that on the back end of this, she'll have full justification to assume that he must want to be in a relationship (other than a merely sexual one) with her because he's having sex with her. Does this question sound familiar to any of you guys, What is this we're doing or what do you want from me? Remember: these questions often arise well into the sexual relationship--a fine time to ask that now...huh?

The unsuspecting, non-commital guy, at this point, is somewhat trapped (and probably confused) because he has a woman on his hands who, over the time they've participated in "non-commital sex" has developed strong feelings for him, thus justifying her actions to proceed with the barrage of relationship questions that he'll receive and be annoyed by, which usually ends in a break-up of some sort.

To summarize, the woman who says to a guy, 'all you want is sex,' much to her detriment, is a willing participant in her own demise of the relationship because she shouldn't have had sex with the guy to begin with, unless the ground rules had been clearly established that it was just going to be a sexual relationship instead of one in which a committed relationship was the desired result.

These things have to be clearly established in the beginning!

Peace,

Cliff - Las Vegas, NV.
 
I think that most men find it much easier to (emotionally) separate the act of sex from the context of a relationship without thinking that it must come with other entanglements, like a relationship, marriage, or strong feelings of commitment and sensitivity.

Conversely, most women generally associate sex with feelings of commitment, relationship and marriage. Consequently, when when a woman says to a guy, 'all you want is sex,' that generally means that she wants more than sex, in fact, she wants to be in a deeply committed relationship or something more.

Most women, at least those women who participate in non-commital relationships where sex is the central part of it, give their tacit approval to these types of relationships, often times to their own detriment. However, the guy who is involved with this women (the one who gives her tacit approval to this type of relationship) doesn't realize that she commits herself begrudgingly to this type of relationship because she knows that on the back end of this, she'll have full justification to assume that he must want to be in a relationship (other than a merely sexual one) with her because he's having sex with her. Does this question sound familiar to any of you guys, What is this we're doing or what do you want from me? Remember: these questions often arise well into the sexual relationship--a fine time to ask that now...huh?

The unsuspecting, non-commital guy, at this point, is somewhat trapped (and probably confused) because he has a woman on his hands who, over the time they've participated in "non-commital sex" has developed strong feelings for him, thus justifying her actions to proceed with the barrage of relationship questions that he'll receive and be annoyed by, which usually ends in a break-up of some sort.

To summarize, the woman who says to a guy, 'all you want is sex,' much to her detriment, is a willing participant in her own demise of the relationship because she shouldn't have had sex with the guy to begin with, unless the ground rules had been clearly established that it was just going to be a sexual relationship instead of one in which a committed relationship was the desired result.

These things have to be clearly established in the beginning!

Peace,

Cliff - Las Vegas, NV.
 
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