We've been married for 5 years, and I have AWAYS had a much higher libido than she has. I would say it was me initiating sex 95% of the time, and for the most part, she was receptive. It's been a few years now that I feel like every time I come on to her, she shoots me down. I've asked her what's going on, if she's gotten bored, no longer finds me attractive, is there something more I can be doing to get her aroused, and her answer is simply that I alway pick the wrong times to ask for sex. Bull. Morning, noon and night, she has no interest. On the off chance I do get her pants off, she doesn't get very wet, and wears out after just a few minutes! What's wrong???