Why is it when you tell anyone that you're bi/homo- sexual they assume you're

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interested in them? Opinion Poll: Why is it when you tell anyone that you're bi/homo- sexual they assume you're interested in them?
I told my bff I was bi-sexual (via me complaining about my ex) and now shes acting totally weird around me and asked if I had a crush on her. Um...I have a gf! Wtf?!
Btw, we've been friends for 8 years! So what gives all of the sudden?! But back to my original question...
 
People just automatically assume that just because your gay or bi, that you like EVERYONE of that sex. To me, it seems that they are trying to make themselves feel more attractive or that they are very insecure in themselves and need someone to like them. Some people are more stupid than others, so watch out.
 
I have no clue that happened only with one person to me and I was like dude you are not my type at all.
 
The same question back to you! Why would you even mention it around them if your weren't interested in them?? Seems to me the old Freud thing going on there.
 
I know one reason I have heard several people say this about lgbt people; It's because a lot of homophobic people think that lgbt people only think about sex and all they want to do is just have sex with the same sex and we can't control our selves another reason is a lot of people think that lesbians , gays and bisexuals would try to convert them to being gay or rape them .
 
Because they are full of themselves and think that they're hot when I've got news for them... most of them are NOT. lol
 
Immaturity/ignorance. They don't have the ability to realize that if they're straight it doesn't mean they like everyone of the opposite sex....so why would gay people like everyone of the same sex.
 
I think it's because they realise they have the potential to be thought of sexually, just like girls know that even when a straight guy doesn't seem attracted to them, they've been checked out, put through the wringer and deemed so. Even if she knows you aren't attracted to her, she probably can't stop wondering, "Has she ever checked me out?" "She probably has and she's decided flaws A and B are too much or I'm not cute enough, ew!"
And they start walking on eggshells like they would with a boy, thinking the smallest things (i.e bending over to grab something, wearing a little more makeup than usual) will trigger a sexual reaction.
 
well it depends on the person... some people are just homophobic and think every gay person is out to sexually rape them... but some people were just raised to think gay people are bad or will hump every leg that appears in front of them... or there just paranoid.
 
because what is the point of telling them if they didnt ask...if you just say it out of no where what are they suppose to think...only logical assumption they get from a totally random sexual outburst
 
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