Why is my brother such an asshole *VENTING*?

[skullkid204]

He constantly yells at me for things that he does ALL the time, there's no reasoning with him! Hes turning 19 in less than a month and im 17. Hes so F%#@ing immature! the other day he freaked out, broke my new cellphone, and was threating everyone in the house! All because I woulden't let him and my little brothers friends play MY 360! I always let him play games on it anyways even thought he never askes. My little brothers friends always just come in the house expecting me to let them play!! And they wreck it, so I get tierd of the BS. I don't even do anything to him and hes a jerk!! There absolutly NO reason he should be an ass ALL the time! He just hates me for no hell of a reason!! And if I wanted to me and my friends could jump him just like that. (my friends hate my brother because he acts pretty much like hes better than everyone) Plus hes a complete narcisist/egomaniac! So can anyone help with any advice. It would be helpful.
Trust me i've tried everything including reasoning but hes completely unreasonable!! (I really think that he may be bi-polar!! My mothers birth father is!)

 

[Me]

I am on the same boat every time. I understand how you feel. My brother is 15 and I'm 16. He treats me like sh!t every time even for his own mistakes. He blames me, he would grab my wrist and squeeze it till it's numb and bruised, punch and spit, will do anything to hurt me. He would deliberately do things just so he could get a reaction outta me. I am very dramatic and sensitive when it comes to things like that. I learnt to just deal with it the hard way, or talk to someone you trust for their support and advice. My brother will always be abusive no matter what, he is a total a$$hole and I wished I was the only child.

You just need to relax and tell your school counsellor for profession help.

 

[tlt]

The best advice I can give is to be the responsible one in this situation.
You and your brother are the same age as me and mine, me being the youngest and from experience that has helped.
Just don't let him bother you, and if he is rude then walk away.
Go for a walk when you feel stressed, and don't come back until you're calm or even go to a friends house and stay the night.
Just have fun and avoid conflict.
Maybe after you are both calm, discuss the situation. But don't put blame on him, as if you act (or sound like) you are blaming him.. he will get upset.

Good luck!

 

[Hayese<3]

Ugh, I'm going through the exact same thing. My brother moved out about a year ago, and he was allowed to come over to visit and to wash his clothes since he hadn't gotten a washer/ dryer yet, but he started inviting his friends over to use OUR pool without asking, leaving my dad's tools out in the yard or not putting them back, leaving messes in the kitchen... once he actually crawled through my bedroom window, took my iPod, and lost it. Plus, he shattered a window to get in once. Me and my dad do all the work around the house, and he just comes whenever he pleases, without asking, and leaves giant messes. I wish I knew what to tell you - maybe when I figure out I'll edit my answer. :/