why is my friend complaining?

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Was this immoral?????
my bff had this happen to her and she didn't know if it was normal or not.i tell her it's not rape but she's like really not letting it go.

he took pics of her
picked her up, carried her, and had sex with her against a wall
bit her
she had been drinking
he never asked consent for specific sex acts esp when she was like bledding
he ws like 34 and she's 18
this was her first time
wouldnt let her leave after
grabbed her hand and put it down his pants without asking
told her to flash his friend
 
Mistake number 1 was the fact that your friend had been drinking. She shouldn't have put herself in a position where she could experience a lack of judgment or possibly become a vulnerable target. I don't know of any stories where something positive had resulted from drinking.

Then, for the guy to take complete advantage of her, taking pictures, performing sexual acts with her against her will, etc, that's just wrong.

So.... who's to blame here? Your friend, for having poor standards, or the jerk who took advantage of her? I think they're both to blame. It's too bad this happened to her. I'm not excusing the guy who did that, but your friend should really consider raising her standards. She's not completely blameless in this matter.
 
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