Why my love is fadding over the years? It should be stronger? What should i...

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...girl do besides cooking? I am 22 years old female. Me and my boyfriend are dating for about 8 years now we are not living together in fact we live 30 mins away and barley see each other once a week due to college and work plus he recently bought his own business. At first we were really in love and with time things changed dramatically. I really care for him and love him too but now days everything seems so changed he has no time for me. We barley talk on phone or meet. How am i supposed to express my love? Or to make it stronger? I feel that we are losing each other. I don't want to lose him; We have spent our huge part of life together. He expects everything from me: For example: Looks, care, respect, love and so on.... and when it’s about me he does not even have any clue what i go through. I am sick and tired of this. If anyone can suggest making it better please reply back Don’t reply back with you should break up and stuff... Even after all this i have no guts to break up...He means my world to me and I know very well that he love me immensely too...Just our spark has gone COMPLETELY. I saw many answers on other questions like Love should be stronger over the years not weaker. It makes me think so all this years we had was not love??? Please help me guys Thanks!
 
You mention that your relationship since 8 years ago its normal to feel like this until you make changes in manythings like dresses hair cut sex postion when you do sex with him after you will feel the defrence
 
you know love does NOT always grow stronger..I am not sure where you got that. Look at the divorce rate! People grow appart. They change,and you guys are so young, of course you both will change! Why don't you too go out together and talk about your feelings...it can't hurt...how do you know he is not feeling the same thing???
if your 22 and you have been together 8 years... then you started dating in first year of High School! That is a big difference. Have you ever wondered what it would be like to date other people? You both have time to explorer, and if you still feel that strongly about each other then you can pick up right were you left off...
 
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