why women need introductions, men dont?

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distresslrain

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why in the inter relation ship between a man and a woman, if a woman wants to turn a man on, she would only wear a skippy skirt or something to get him sexually turned on, but if a man wants to turn a woman on, he then has to struggle trying a foreplay which may wind up failing to turn her on also.
 
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ver_jen

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Men are wired to get aroused by visual stimulation but women are wired to become aroused by emotional stimulation. I have said before that Men are like microwaves and women are like ovens. Men can be ready for sex by just a thought but a woman needs to be emotionally connected in order for it to be fulfilling. It is just the way we are designed.

Foreplay can start anywhere and doesn't always have to be sexual. Just making a woman feel that she is desirable (not only in a sexual way) is a turn on for most women. To feel like she is loved and appreciated goes a long way in starting to turn a woman on.

If a man treats a woman like an object all day groping her and not respecting her and never makes her feel that she is special, when night comes and it's time to get together, it is going to take a LOT to get her in the mood. Women are more likely to view sex as a way to emotionally connect with our partner but men tend to think of it more as a way to feel really good for a while.

For women, it isn't about how good you do in bed but how good of a person you are and how you treat her all day long.
 
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